Friday, October 12, 2007

PENTAMINDS GLOBAL

project manager- Elsie

Image CEO- Kyalo

Editor/uploader- Magdalyn

Project analyst/presenter- Jacky

Writer/secretary- Isabelle

What is rape?

It is a form of assault where an individual forces another to have sexual intercourse against that person’s will. It is a crime against humanity…theft of one’s spirit…torture…a war against the powerless…selling of women and children….

It includes intercourse in the vagina, anus or mouth. Sometimes assailants use objects rather than their own body parts against the sexual organs of their target.

The primary cause of rape is an aggressive desire to dominate the victim.

Types of rape

  • Date rape- Date rape occurs between people who are known to each other either platonically (purely spiritual; free from sensual desire, esp. in a relationship between two persons of the opposite sex) or sexually. It involves use of the so-called date rape drugs e.g. GHB, ketamine, benzodiazepines, alcohol
  • Marital rape- in marital rape the husband is the perpetrator.
  • Gang rape - Gang rape is rape of a victim by several attackers in rapid succession.
  • Prison rape - Inmates rape fellow inmates
  • Wartime rape - Soldiers rape women they find in the place they attack in wartime rape.

Did you know?

  • A rape occurs every 30 minutes in Kenya.
  • In the U.S., every 90 seconds somebody is raped.
  • 90-91% of the victims are female.
  • 9-10% male mostly in correctional facilities.
  • 80-90% of the victims do not report rape cases.
  • 8 out of 10 victims knew the perpetrator.
  • Most perpetrators are male.
  • The youngest recorded rape victim in Kenya was 5 months old while the oldest was above 80 years old.

Factors that cause perpetrators to rape

Individual Factors

  • Alcohol and drug abuse
  • Coercive sexual fantasies.
  • Impulsive and antisocial tendencies.
  • Preference for impersonal sex.
  • Hostility towards women.
  • History of sexual abuse as a child.
  • Witness of family violence as a child.

Relationship Factors

  • Association with sexually aggressive and delinquent peers.
  • Family environment with physical violence and few resources.
  • Strong patriarchal relationship.
  • Emotionally unsupportive family environment.

Community Factors

  • Poverty mediated through forms of male identity crisis.
  • Unemployment.
  • Lack of institutional support from police and judicial systems.
  • General tolerance of sexual assault.
  • Weak community sanctions (provisions of laws enacting penalties for disobedience or rewards for obedience) against perpetrators of sexual violence.

Societal Factors

  • Societal norms that support sexual violence.
  • Societal norms that support superiority and sexual entitlement.
  • Weak laws and policies related to gender equity.
  • High levels of crime and other forms of violence.

Motivations for perpetrators

  • Sadism.
  • Wanting sexual gratification.
  • Aggressive desire for power or domination and anger.

Vulnerability factors of victimization

  • Young age i.e. 54% of the victims are below 18 and 22% are below 12.
  • Drug and alcohol use.
  • Prior history of sexual violence makes it likely to happen again.
  • Multiple sexual partners.
  • Poverty.
  • Inability of victim to give consent by virtue of mental illness, mental retardation or intoxication.

Situations in which rape can occur are when the victim and perpetrator are alone e.g. in a dark alley, when either the victim only or both the victim and the perpetrator are intoxicated with drugs and/or alcohol among other situations.

Symptoms of Rape

  • Feeling numb and detached, like being in a daze or a dream or feeling that the world is strange and unreal.
  • Difficulty in remembering important parts of the assault.
  • Reliving the assault through repeated thoughts, memories or nightmares.
  • Avoidance of things-places, thoughts, feelings-that remind the victim of the assault.
  • Anxiety; difficulty in sleeping, concentrating, etc.
  • Avoidance of social life or place of rape

What to do in case you suspect that somebody is about to rape you:-

  • SCREAM. It scares the would-be attacker.
  • Run as fast as you can.
  • If he catches up with you, resist and fight him as hard as you can. Kick him in the groin and run.
  • Report the case to the police as soon as possible.

What to do in case of rape:-

  • Call rape crisis centre or victims rights group. A volunteer will accompany you to the hospital.
  • Do not take a bath as this will wash away evidence. At the hospital the doctor will examine you to collect evidence e.g. semen, bruises, torn private parts, blood stains, etc to ascertain occurrence of rape. S/he will give you treatment to prevent pregnancy and STIs and refer you to a counselor who will help you deal with the trauma.
  • The hospital will contact the police so go home, bathe, rest and try to recover with support of your loved ones.
  • See the counselor you were referred to and attend all counseling sessions as scheduled.
  • Follow up on whether the case is all ready being handled by the police.
Relationship between victim and perpetrator
  • Intimate stalking partner.
  • Intimate partners-current or former spouse/boyfriend.

Rape effects

  • Unwanted pregnancies
  • Physical deformities e.g. torn private parts
  • Infections e.g. AIDS and other STIs
  • Trauma and stigma etc.

Proposed remedies for rape

  • Tough penalties and punishments to assailants
  • Educating the public on how to avoid rape and dealing with rape victims and encouraging people to report rape cases.
  • The ANTI-RAPE FEMALE CONDOM known as The Bailer. It was invented by Sonnette Ehlers, a South African for the purpose of preventing rape

The device is a latex sheath held firm by shafts of sharp, inward-facing microscopic barbs that would be worn by a woman in her vagina like a tampon. Should an attacker attempt vaginal rape, the penis would penetrate the latex and be bailed by the barbs, causing the attacker pain and (ideally) giving the victim time to escape. The condom would remain bailed to the attacker's body and could be removed only surgically, which would, hypothetically, alert hospital staff and police.

The Rapex would also act as a preventative measure if an attacker had any sexually transmitted diseases.

Several steps have been taken in Kenya to control rape and even stop it altogether for example:-

  • Media houses and organizations donate time and advertising spaces to teach the public about rape.
  • A specialized police force to deal with rape has been established.
  • Proper care and competent staff are in place to help victims.
  • Women are taught self-defense tactics and how to handle themselves in the event of attempted rape.

Legislation

The National Assembly of Kenya passed a motion by Nominated MP, Njoki Ndung’u allowing introduction of Sexual Offences Bill which proposes reforming the law and enforcing harsher punishments for sex offenders.

The bill seeks to impose minimum sentences for rape and defilement; outlaws women being forced to undergo cultural practices deemed harmful such as FGM and wife inheritance, and provides counseling and medical treatment for victims and medical treatment for victims and perpetrators of sexual violence and abuse. It also outlaws sexual harassment and says there is no time limit for a victim to pursue a sexual offence case.

It is said that the proposed legislation goes against African culture, would discourage or prevent marriage, or be used to take revenge or unfairly punish men.

Conclusion

Rape is evil and should be done away with completely!!!

http://www.cdc.gov

http://www.medicinenet.com

PENTAMINDS GLOBAL

project manager- Elsie

Image CEO- Kyalo

Editor/uploader- Magdalyn

Project analyst/presenter- Jacky

Writer/secretary- Isabelle

What is rape?

It is a form of assault where an individual forces another to have sexual intercourse against that person’s will. It is a crime against humanity…theft of one’s spirit…torture…a war against the powerless…selling of women and children….

It includes intercourse in the vagina, anus or mouth. Sometimes assailants use objects rather than their own body parts against the sexual organs of their target.

The primary cause of rape is an aggressive desire to dominate the victim.

Types of rape

  • Date rape- Date rape occurs between people who are known to each other either platonically (purely spiritual; free from sensual desire, esp. in a relationship between two persons of the opposite sex) or sexually. It involves use of the so-called date rape drugs e.g. GHB, ketamine, benzodiazepines, alcohol
  • Marital rape- in marital rape the husband is the perpetrator.
  • Gang rape - Gang rape is rape of a victim by several attackers in rapid succession.
  • Prison rape - Inmates rape fellow inmates
  • Wartime rape - Soldiers rape women they find in the place they attack in wartime rape.

Did you know?

  • A rape occurs every 30 minutes in Kenya.
  • In the U.S., every 90 seconds somebody is raped.
  • 90-91% of the victims are female.
  • 9-10% male mostly in correctional facilities.
  • 80-90% of the victims do not report rape cases.
  • 8 out of 10 victims knew the perpetrator.
  • Most perpetrators are male.
  • The youngest recorded rape victim in Kenya was 5 months old while the oldest was above 80 years old.

Factors that cause perpetrators to rape

Individual Factors

  • Alcohol and drug abuse
  • Coercive sexual fantasies.
  • Impulsive and antisocial tendencies.
  • Preference for impersonal sex.
  • Hostility towards women.
  • History of sexual abuse as a child.
  • Witness of family violence as a child.

Relationship Factors

  • Association with sexually aggressive and delinquent peers.
  • Family environment with physical violence and few resources.
  • Strong patriarchal relationship.
  • Emotionally unsupportive family environment.

Community Factors

  • Poverty mediated through forms of male identity crisis.
  • Unemployment.
  • Lack of institutional support from police and judicial systems.
  • General tolerance of sexual assault.
  • Weak community sanctions (provisions of laws enacting penalties for disobedience or rewards for obedience) against perpetrators of sexual violence.

Societal Factors

  • Societal norms that support sexual violence.
  • Societal norms that support superiority and sexual entitlement.
  • Weak laws and policies related to gender equity.
  • High levels of crime and other forms of violence.

Motivations for perpetrators

  • Sadism.
  • Wanting sexual gratification.
  • Aggressive desire for power or domination and anger.

Vulnerability factors of victimization

  • Young age i.e. 54% of the victims are below 18 and 22% are below 12.
  • Drug and alcohol use.
  • Prior history of sexual violence makes it likely to happen again.
  • Multiple sexual partners.
  • Poverty.
  • Inability of victim to give consent by virtue of mental illness, mental retardation or intoxication.

Situations in which rape can occur are when the victim and perpetrator are alone e.g. in a dark alley, when either the victim only or both the victim and the perpetrator are intoxicated with drugs and/or alcohol among other situations.

Symptoms of Rape

  • Feeling numb and detached, like being in a daze or a dream or feeling that the world is strange and unreal.
  • Difficulty in remembering important parts of the assault.
  • Reliving the assault through repeated thoughts, memories or nightmares.
  • Avoidance of things-places, thoughts, feelings-that remind the victim of the assault.
  • Anxiety; difficulty in sleeping, concentrating, etc.
  • Avoidance of social life or place of rape

What to do in case you suspect that somebody is about to rape you:-

  • SCREAM. It scares the would-be attacker.
  • Run as fast as you can.
  • If he catches up with you, resist and fight him as hard as you can. Kick him in the groin and run.
  • Report the case to the police as soon as possible.

What to do in case of rape:-

  • Call rape crisis centre or victims rights group. A volunteer will accompany you to the hospital.
  • Do not take a bath as this will wash away evidence. At the hospital the doctor will examine you to collect evidence e.g. semen, bruises, torn private parts, blood stains, etc to ascertain occurrence of rape. S/he will give you treatment to prevent pregnancy and STIs and refer you to a counselor who will help you deal with the trauma.
  • The hospital will contact the police so go home, bathe, rest and try to recover with support of your loved ones.
  • See the counselor you were referred to and attend all counseling sessions as scheduled.
  • Follow up on whether the case is all ready being handled by the police.
Relationship between victim and perpetrator
  • Intimate stalking partner.
  • Intimate partners-current or former spouse/boyfriend.

Rape effects

  • Unwanted pregnancies
  • Physical deformities e.g. torn private parts
  • Infections e.g. AIDS and other STIs
  • Trauma and stigma etc.

Proposed remedies for rape

  • Tough penalties and punishments to assailants
  • Educating the public on how to avoid rape and dealing with rape victims and encouraging people to report rape cases.
  • The ANTI-RAPE FEMALE CONDOM known as The Bailer. It was invented by Sonnette Ehlers, a South African for the purpose of preventing rape

The device is a latex sheath held firm by shafts of sharp, inward-facing microscopic barbs that would be worn by a woman in her vagina like a tampon. Should an attacker attempt vaginal rape, the penis would penetrate the latex and be bailed by the barbs, causing the attacker pain and (ideally) giving the victim time to escape. The condom would remain bailed to the attacker's body and could be removed only surgically, which would, hypothetically, alert hospital staff and police.

The Rapex would also act as a preventative measure if an attacker had any sexually transmitted diseases.

Several steps have been taken in Kenya to control rape and even stop it altogether for example:-

  • Media houses and organizations donate time and advertising spaces to teach the public about rape.
  • A specialized police force to deal with rape has been established.
  • Proper care and competent staff are in place to help victims.
  • Women are taught self-defense tactics and how to handle themselves in the event of attempted rape.

Legislation

The National Assembly of Kenya passed a motion by Nominated MP, Njoki Ndung’u allowing introduction of Sexual Offences Bill which proposes reforming the law and enforcing harsher punishments for sex offenders.

The bill seeks to impose minimum sentences for rape and defilement; outlaws women being forced to undergo cultural practices deemed harmful such as FGM and wife inheritance, and provides counseling and medical treatment for victims and medical treatment for victims and perpetrators of sexual violence and abuse. It also outlaws sexual harassment and says there is no time limit for a victim to pursue a sexual offence case.

It is said that the proposed legislation goes against African culture, would discourage or prevent marriage, or be used to take revenge or unfairly punish men.

Conclusion

Rape is evil and should be done away with completely!!!

http://www.cdc.gov

http://www.medicinenet.com

project manager- Elsie

Image CEO- Kyalo

Editor/uploader- Magdalyn

Project analyst/presenter- Jacky

Writer/secretary- Isabelle

What is rape?

It is a form of assault where an individual forces another to have sexual intercourse against that person’s will. It is a crime against humanity…theft of one’s spirit…torture…a war against the powerless…selling of women and children….

It includes intercourse in the vagina, anus or mouth. Sometimes assailants use objects rather than their own body parts against the sexual organs of their target.

The primary cause of rape is an aggressive desire to dominate the victim.

Types of rape

  • Date rape- Date rape occurs between people who are known to each other either platonically (purely spiritual; free from sensual desire, esp. in a relationship between two persons of the opposite sex) or sexually. It involves use of the so-called date rape drugs e.g. GHB, ketamine, benzodiazepines, alcohol
  • Marital rape- in marital rape the husband is the perpetrator.
  • Gang rape - Gang rape is rape of a victim by several attackers in rapid succession.
  • Prison rape - Inmates rape fellow inmates
  • Wartime rape - Soldiers rape women they find in the place they attack in wartime rape.

Did you know?

  • A rape occurs every 30 minutes in Kenya.
  • In the U.S., every 90 seconds somebody is raped.
  • 90-91% of the victims are female.
  • 9-10% male mostly in correctional facilities.
  • 80-90% of the victims do not report rape cases.
  • 8 out of 10 victims knew the perpetrator.
  • Most perpetrators are male.
  • The youngest recorded rape victim in Kenya was 5 months old while the oldest was above 80 years old.

Factors that cause perpetrators to rape

Individual Factors

  • Alcohol and drug abuse
  • Coercive sexual fantasies.
  • Impulsive and antisocial tendencies.
  • Preference for impersonal sex.
  • Hostility towards women.
  • History of sexual abuse as a child.
  • Witness of family violence as a child.

Relationship Factors

  • Association with sexually aggressive and delinquent peers.
  • Family environment with physical violence and few resources.
  • Strong patriarchal relationship.
  • Emotionally unsupportive family environment.

Community Factors

  • Poverty mediated through forms of male identity crisis.
  • Unemployment.
  • Lack of institutional support from police and judicial systems.
  • General tolerance of sexual assault.
  • Weak community sanctions (provisions of laws enacting penalties for disobedience or rewards for obedience) against perpetrators of sexual violence.

Societal Factors

  • Societal norms that support sexual violence.
  • Societal norms that support superiority and sexual entitlement.
  • Weak laws and policies related to gender equity.
  • High levels of crime and other forms of violence.

Motivations for perpetrators

  • Sadism.
  • Wanting sexual gratification.
  • Aggressive desire for power or domination and anger.

Vulnerability factors of victimization

  • Young age i.e. 54% of the victims are below 18 and 22% are below 12.
  • Drug and alcohol use.
  • Prior history of sexual violence makes it likely to happen again.
  • Multiple sexual partners.
  • Poverty.
  • Inability of victim to give consent by virtue of mental illness, mental retardation or intoxication.

Situations in which rape can occur are when the victim and perpetrator are alone e.g. in a dark alley, when either the victim only or both the victim and the perpetrator are intoxicated with drugs and/or alcohol among other situations.

Symptoms of Rape

  • Feeling numb and detached, like being in a daze or a dream or feeling that the world is strange and unreal.
  • Difficulty in remembering important parts of the assault.
  • Reliving the assault through repeated thoughts, memories or nightmares.
  • Avoidance of things-places, thoughts, feelings-that remind the victim of the assault.
  • Anxiety; difficulty in sleeping, concentrating, etc.
  • Avoidance of social life or place of rape

What to do in case you suspect that somebody is about to rape you:-

  • SCREAM. It scares the would-be attacker.
  • Run as fast as you can.
  • If he catches up with you, resist and fight him as hard as you can. Kick him in the groin and run.
  • Report the case to the police as soon as possible.

What to do in case of rape:-

  • Call rape crisis centre or victims rights group. A volunteer will accompany you to the hospital.
  • Do not take a bath as this will wash away evidence. At the hospital the doctor will examine you to collect evidence e.g. semen, bruises, torn private parts, blood stains, etc to ascertain occurrence of rape. S/he will give you treatment to prevent pregnancy and STIs and refer you to a counselor who will help you deal with the trauma.
  • The hospital will contact the police so go home, bathe, rest and try to recover with support of your loved ones.
  • See the counselor you were referred to and attend all counseling sessions as scheduled.
  • Follow up on whether the case is all ready being handled by the police.
Relationship between victim and perpetrator
  • Intimate stalking partner.
  • Intimate partners-current or former spouse/boyfriend.

Rape effects

  • Unwanted pregnancies
  • Physical deformities e.g. torn private parts
  • Infections e.g. AIDS and other STIs
  • Trauma and stigma etc.

Proposed remedies for rape

  • Tough penalties and punishments to assailants
  • Educating the public on how to avoid rape and dealing with rape victims and encouraging people to report rape cases.
  • The ANTI-RAPE FEMALE CONDOM known as The Bailer. It was invented by Sonnette Ehlers, a South African for the purpose of preventing rape

The device is a latex sheath held firm by shafts of sharp, inward-facing microscopic barbs that would be worn by a woman in her vagina like a tampon. Should an attacker attempt vaginal rape, the penis would penetrate the latex and be bailed by the barbs, causing the attacker pain and (ideally) giving the victim time to escape. The condom would remain bailed to the attacker's body and could be removed only surgically, which would, hypothetically, alert hospital staff and police.

The Rapex would also act as a preventative measure if an attacker had any sexually transmitted diseases.

Several steps have been taken in Kenya to control rape and even stop it altogether for example:-

  • Media houses and organizations donate time and advertising spaces to teach the public about rape.
  • A specialized police force to deal with rape has been established.
  • Proper care and competent staff are in place to help victims.
  • Women are taught self-defense tactics and how to handle themselves in the event of attempted rape.

Legislation

The National Assembly of Kenya passed a motion by Nominated MP, Njoki Ndung’u allowing introduction of Sexual Offences Bill which proposes reforming the law and enforcing harsher punishments for sex offenders.

The bill seeks to impose minimum sentences for rape and defilement; outlaws women being forced to undergo cultural practices deemed harmful such as FGM and wife inheritance, and provides counseling and medical treatment for victims and medical treatment for victims and perpetrators of sexual violence and abuse. It also outlaws sexual harassment and says there is no time limit for a victim to pursue a sexual offence case.

It is said that the proposed legislation goes against African culture, would discourage or prevent marriage, or be used to take revenge or unfairly punish men.

Conclusion

Rape is evil and should be done away with completely!!!

http://www.cdc.gov

http://www.medicinenet.com

Friday, September 28, 2007

PRO-LIFE, PRO-ABORTION, WHAT'S IT?



'MISERABLE IS THAT ONE WHO DIES WITHOUT REALIZING THE PURPOSE OF EXISTENCE'. Centro.G.Anael



The tearing away of life has become an act of mere selfish desires and benefits. 'Convenience' is what we term it as. Maybe we don't understand what it is. Abortion- a word that sounds harsh to our ears. The questions we should ask are-what is it? why abortion?what are the after effects? Is it right or wrong and why; who sets the rules and gives answers?

Abortion is the discarding of the uterus products before 24weeks of pregnancy, simply put termination of the foetus. Abortion is a violation of human rights and therefore should not be undertaken.


Why do women undertake abortion?

75% say the baby would interfere with their lives.

66% say they can't afford a child with this changing age.

50% don't want to be single parents or had problems in their current relationship.
4% had a doctor who said their health condition would worsen.

1% had a fetal abnormality and another 1% were victims of rape or incest.
But truly 95% of all abortions are for reasons of conenience, not for rape, incest or mother's health.
However, some people hide behind some inhumane claims to justify abortion. "It's my body"- a woman would cry though one human being can't have 2 beating hearts, or two legs or hands. That's not her unique body but a wonderful baby growing in her.

Is it truly only a foetus? In Latin it means 'little one' so there's life in what one wants to destroy and didn't me and you come from that?!

So, abortion is legalised in some countries but some of the laws made are overturned and is it not true that human is to error. . .

Freedom is a right and women have a right to choose.Then shouldn't we have a right to choose to use drugs? We should know that when faced with a dilemma to choose a law to use, the one with the lesser evil should be sought.(www.abortionfacts.com/abortionargument)

Some use the basis that primitive methods pose a great risk of death rather than expert help. Sadly, there's not much difference as those so-called safe methods still cause physical injury and even worse death. Large numbers of women still die every year.
Some say rape or incest cases should allow those women to abort. It's important to remember that the child born is no less human than others and the way society perceives them just causes the women to be aggressors to the children.These and more reasons cause women to abort everyday all over the world.


Maybe if we knew the effects abortion brings about, we would be more cautious and preach against it. Abortion causes mental, physical and social damage to one. Physically, one can have bladder injury, bowel injury, breast cancer, tubal pregnancy, problems with future pregnancies probably excessive bleeding, giving birth to still babies or miscarriages. The abortion could fail causing more danger. Infection, Hepatitis, Laceration of the cervix could also occur. Let's not forget that one is likely to undergo trauma leading to mental disturbance.


So its better to keep off grounds that could lead such after effects and tread on safe grounds.


If you have a heart and don't see this as just a 'foetal tissue' you'll never think of doing this..
Courtesy of:http://www.lovematters.com/









Thursday, September 27, 2007

PUTTING A TWIST TO IT!

Putting a twist to life.. a different touch... a new look.. a change of heart..maybe that is what we need. Many take the face value of everything,the sad truth and mince their lives in it.
Bit by bit, they are crashed, accepting the teeth of the wild foxes in the world
to slowly digest their souls.
Isn't that what we want? It must be..don't deny it.
Then stand straight look up high over the howling of dogs
Look to the sunrise not the sunset,
the good days to come not the incriminating days past.
Put a twist to it
Take the rugged stone and mould it to the cornerstone
Staining spits of the mouth
Words of new beginnings
The sad truth
A misty forgettable past.
You create your future
Make your destiny
Live it not them.

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

KENYA, MY PRIDE!!

Hi my name is Elsie Laureen .M. I am a kenyan by birth and i love my country. Most people say they love their country but i really mean it! that's why i decided to write about it. there's a slogan in my contry that says 'najivunia kuwa mkenya' and i wholeheartedly support it, it means 'I am proud to be Keyan'. Kenya is such a beautiful country with wonderful people of different tribes each having different cultures.That's what is unique, though we are different we still have a common goal-to better our nation!
Speaking of our cultures, we have such rich cultures ranging from our many unique traditions that govern the well-being and proper co-existence of the community members. For example, there is a defined code of conduct depending on age or marital status.We believe in family and so all we do narrows down to it and make sure that we improve it.
Not forgetting our heritage. We boast of indigenous vegetation and
wildlife. It is also being looked to that the migration of wildebeests in the Masai Maara game reserve to be considered as a wonder of the world. Have you ever seen a national park in the middle of a capital city?if not then you had better visit Nairobi. See! this are just but a few of the good things found in Kenya.Make sure you find out more!